- Talking about suicide can save lives. Asking about suicide in a calm, supportive way is not harmful and can help children struggling with suicidal thoughts.
- Don't wait for the topic of suicide to come up on its own. Regularly check in with your child, asking open-ended questions and providing a safe place for them to share their feelings.
- Watch for warning signs or sudden changes in behavior. If you’re concerned, bring up your concerns directly and ask if they have ever thought about ending their life.
Resources for Suicide Prevention
Suicide is the second leading cause of death for children ages 10-14 according to the CDC (2025). Talking with kids about suicide is one of the most important conversations you can have. Learn about how to talk to kids about suicide, the myths surrounding suicide, and ways to build resilience in kids.
If you or your child need help due to having suicidal thoughts, call, chat or text the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline or text the Crisis Text Line by texting "START" to 741-741. If there is an immediate safety concern, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency room.
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