- Military-connected kids often face frequent moves, long separations and sudden transitions. Supporting their mental health requires structure, emotional availability and a sense of belonging.
- Routines can help create stability and a sense of security amid constant change.
- Validating kids' emotions, honoring their experiences and celebrating the strengths of military life (like adaptability and resilience) can build trust and promote long-term well-being.
- Trusted adults should watch for signs of stress like withdrawal, physical symptoms (e.g. stomachaches) or mood swings and act early by connecting families to specialized support.
Understanding Common Military Acronyms
Article Summary
- Understanding military acronyms helps parents, educators and supporters of military-connected youth navigate conversations, resources, and the unique aspects of military life.
- Familiarity with these terms can strengthen relationships and foster a more supportive environment for military families and children.
When it comes to military life, it can sometimes feel like you’re hearing a completely different language. Acronyms are everywhere. If you’re a parent, family member or adult supporting military children and families, understanding these terms can help you navigate conversations, resources and the unique experiences of military-connected youth.
Here are some of the most common military acronyms.
General Military Acronyms
- DoD: Department of Defense
The federal agency responsible for coordinating and supervising all military activities. - PCS: Permanent Change of Station
When a service member and their family are relocated to a new duty station. - TDY/TAD: Temporary Duty or Temporary Additional Duty
A short-term assignment for a service member away from their permanent station, often lasting days or weeks. - CONUS/OCONUS: Continental United States/Outside Continental United States
Refers to whether a service member’s duty station or assignment is within the U.S. or overseas. - LES: Leave and Earnings Statement
A monthly document that details a service member’s pay and deductions. - MWR: Morale, Welfare, and Recreation
Programs and services designed to support the well-being and morale of military members and their families, including recreational activities, child care and fitness facilities. - CAC: Common Access Card
The identification card issued to active-duty members, required for accessing secure systems and bases.
Family-Related Military Acronyms
- FRG: Family Readiness Group
A support group for spouses, parents and families of service members within a unit. It provides resources, information and emotional support during deployments and beyond. - EFMP: Exceptional Family Member Program
A program that assists military families with members who have special medical or educational needs. - DEERS: Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System
A system that keeps track of military family members’ eligibility for health care and other benefits. - TRICARE:
The healthcare system used by military families, offering various medical and dental coverage plans. - CYS: Child and Youth Services
Programs offered on military installations to provide child care, youth sports and activities.
Deployment and Support Acronyms
- OPSEC: Operational Security
Guidelines to keep military operations and movements private for safety. Families are often reminded not to share deployment details or dates on social media. - R&R: Rest and Recuperation
A period during deployment when service members get time off to visit home or relax. - POA: Power of Attorney
A legal document that allows someone to act on behalf of a service member, often used during deployments for financial or family matters. - FOB: Forward Operating Base
A secured military base located in a combat zone. - JAG: Judge Advocate General.
Legal support and services provided within the military across all branches.
- TAPS: Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors
Provides support to families grieving the loss of a military loved one.
- SITREP: Situation Report.
A brief summary that provides updated information about an operation, mission, or overall status. It's used to keep leaders and relevant personnel informed.
For Kids and Teens: Acronyms They May Hear
- BRAT: Refers to military children.
- PTSD: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
A condition that may affect service members after experiencing trauma. It’s important to have open conversations about mental health to reduce stigma. - COM or CO: Commanding Officer. A senior officer in charge of a military unit.
- XO: Executive Officer, who is the second-in-command to the Commanding Officer (CO).
- JROTC/ROTC: Junior Reserve Officer Training Corps/Reserve Officer Training Corps
Programs in high schools and colleges that teach leadership, discipline and military skills.
Whether you’re a teacher, coach, family member or community supporter, familiarizing yourself with these common military terms is a small step that can make a big difference. Speaking their language can build stronger relationships and create a more supportive environment for military-connected children and families.
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